COUPLES MASSAGE

While couples’ massages are becoming increasingly popular, many people still are unsure of what to expect and what exactly a  couples’ massage entails.  To put it simply , it involves two people experiencing massage treatments at the same time in the same room.  Many spas will have a room set up specifically for this purpose, with two massage tables next to each other so wives and husbands, girlfriends and boyfriends and same- sex partners can enjoy this relaxing time together.

The first benefit of a couples’ massage is quite obvious:  it provides the couple an opportunity to relax while the therapists provide massage strokes specific to the couple’s desires.

The second benefit is the sometime surprising communication boost between partners.  Many couples report being able to speak more openly and honestly with their significant other after a couples, massage.   It provides time for a relaxed conversation which paves the way for a wonderful union between the pair.

Many new to this experience may feel a tad uncomfortable, but again, having a partner there to provide companionship and solidarity is key.

Quick note: many couples prefer to experience a couples, massage on their own without the therapist there, but the therapists are essential.  This is one of the main reasons why couples cannot open up to one another.  Think of the therapist as a silent mediator:  allow them to do all the work, relaxing sore muscles, kneading pressure points, providing aromatherapy experiences while you let down your guard, ease your tensions and open up to the person on the table next to you.

Many spas offer great couples’ massage packages, some  oriented towards romance, some towards self-reflection, and some for special occasions.  However you choose to experience this rare treat it is well worth the time and money!

The health benefits of massage address many of our modern ills:  assisting with circulation, deepening and slowing respiration, reducing heart charge and blood pressure, as well as reducing secretion of stress hormones and increasing people feel-good hormones, endorphins.  Couples’  massage can be a fantastic escape for you and your loved one. It serves as an opportunity for you both to reduce the stress of your crazy work lives and indulge in the time you have for your personal lives.  It is a great liaison between work and home and can help you place boundaries between your piles of paperwork and your weekend play.  Massage can be a great opportunity to bond as it sets aside time to talk to your partner and catch up, or it can be an opportunity to enjoy a relaxing moment at the same time.  It can be a great benefit that you both leave at the same time feeling relaxed and renewed.

There are many reported benefits of couples’ massage, and  benefits of  massage in general, that can enhance your love life.  Massage has been proven beneficial for increasing circulation, flexibility and energy,  which can be great for spicing up your intimate moments .   It also has been known to reduce stress and can therefore minimize stress arguments.

Couples’ massage is not only for love interests:   many people  enjoy massages with their mothers or best friends and see it as a wonderful opportunity to prepare for stressful events.  It has become popular to enjoy group massages with your bridesmaids before the big day and has become a common gift for the bride and groom to enjoy in the weeks after wedding. Some couples find it a great benefit to schedule massages near the due date of their child’s birth as a pre-natal massage can lead to a shorter time in labor and a more relaxed father and mother.  Next time you need a romantic getaway, or you want to schedule an exciting rendezvous consider the benefits of couples’ massage. Allow the well-trained hands of a massage therapist to melt away your pain and stress.

Wishing you Peace, Harmony and Balance